America...Taking care of your kids is just taking care of your kids, no matter how much work you assign yourself in the concomitant tasks you want to complete in order to do so. You, whomever you are, are supposed to take care of your kids. You are not supposed to have a choice about it; even though some people choose not to take care of their children.
My advice: don't come home in the evenings when your children have gotten hungry, and tell them to go grocery shopping and get to cooking because you already worked that day.
At the same time, I would not try getting breakfast in the morning, clearing the dishes off the table, packing school lunches, or getting the maid to do it all- then arriving at your job to tell your
boss you have already put in work hours that day.
Having to get up and go to work each day is something aside from having to take care of your
children, while at the same time getting yourself to work each day for earned income.
Some rich women, with and without children, contribute a lot of earned income from a job in our
economic sectors; and still- some of these same women raise wonderful children.
One thing is what it is.
The other is something else.
Your children are your children, especially in a genetic sense, or an adoptive sense, no matter what you do.
Your job for earned income... not so much.
Choosing to shun earned income from work or a 'job', doesn't give anyone any expertise whatsoever on economic issues in the lives of the average American woman, no matter how wonderful that person and her choices may happen be.
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